Category: Just my thoughts
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The Unspoken Experience of Divorce for Men
I have never personally been divorced, but I know what it feels like to have a relationship end when you have already made plans for a future together. In 2016, I broke off an engagement with a man I genuinely believed I was ready to build a life with. Lobola was paid on a Saturday,…
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Navigating life with discernment
As a single Christian mother, life often feels like a series of endless juggling acts—managing relationships, work, business, and career choices, all while striving to live a life grounded in faith. Each day presents a new set of challenges, and through it all, discernment has been my guiding light (Not always though). The Bible is…
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Recognising mental illness from a christian perspective
As a Christian, reflecting on mental illness through the lens of my faith is a profoundly personal journey. It was only recently that I experienced firsthand what it was like to be a woman of faith dealing with mental health issues. It was a difficult experience as I wrestled with feelings of betraying God and…
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Love and belonging through the lenses of the bible, psychology, and modern life
In the pursuit of a fulfilling life, the concepts of love and belonging stand as pillars that resonate across cultures, generations, and ages. From the Bible to modern psychology, the yearning for deep connections and a sense of belonging has shaped the very fabric of human existence. This post was inspired by a heartfelt conversation…
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Forgiveness is not a shortcut to healing
“To the ego, love is a crime. it seeks to convince us that forgiveness is a dangerous position that entails an unfair sacrifice on our part. The ego claims that forgiveness can lead us into situations where we become someone’s doormat. To the ego, love is a weakness. To the Holy Spirit, love is strength” …
